The Child-Friendly Faith Project has lost a wise, compassionate, and courageous advisor. On January 9, Rev. Keith Wright, who had served congregations for nearly sixty years, passed away. Many people in the Austin community loved Keith as a pastor and as a friend. He was absolutely devoted to his family, especially his wife Mona.

I admired Keith before I met him or even knew much about him. In 2008, as I was researching my book Breaking Their Will, I was struggling to find material written by those who truly understood the issue of religious child maltreatment. Then I came across Keith’s book Religious Abuse: A Pastor Explores the Many Ways Religion Can Hurt as well as Heal. Upon reading the description, I immediately ordered it from Amazon.

When the book arrived and I poured through it, I appreciated its unpretentious, straightforward style. Furthermore, I was thrilled to see that it had a chapter devoted to children. The chapter, as well as the rest of Religious Abuse, is a caring and direct explanation of the yin-and-yang nature of religion. That is, its ability to both heal and harm. I was also struck by the fact that the author was a survivor of religious child maltreatment. As he explains in the book’s introduction, when he was a boy, Keith’s mother died after members of her Christian Science church community prevented her from getting medical care.

I had to look up this author, to learn what kind of man he was. Perhaps he would let me interview him, I thought. After contacting the publisher, I learned that Keith lived, of all places, two minutes from my home. We spoke on the phone and he invited me to his house for a chat. During that visit, one of many that were to come, Keith patiently answered my questions and gave me more questions to struggle with. He also expressed his feelings about “the church.”

These conversations were mind-opening for me. Before I met Keith, I had no idea that there were Christians who didn’t believe in the doctrine of Original Sin. He helped me see that there were many people of faith who wanted nothing to do with fear-based ideology and, instead, sought religious ideals that lifted people up, rather than oppressed them. Keith also stressed the importance of revealing the duality of religion and not just dwell on the negative.

And yet he did not hold back in criticizing the church. After I founded the Child-Friendly Faith Project and Keith agreed to join our board of advisors, I asked him for some bio material for our website. While his bio states that he loved the church, he also acknowledged that it is one that can be “grievously abusive.” And he noted, for the church to benefit people, “it must admit that it has harmed, and continues to harm, many that it is supposed to serve.”

I asked Dr. David Jensen, the Academic Dean of Austin Presbyterian Theological Seminary and a friend of Keith’s, to email me his thoughts about the man. Dave also spoke to Keith’s courage and compassion:

Keith Wright epitomized a dynamic faith. He refused to settle for pat answers and instead understood faith as a journey: always asking questions, always growing, always open to other perspectives. Keith believed in a good and generous God who showers all God’s creatures with blessing, and who expected us to use our minds in the journey of faith. Even in his last weeks of life, we could witness Keith’s vigorous mind at work: in the prayers that he voiced in worship, in conversation with friends, in ideas that he was wrestling with. This dynamic faith, this attention to the vulnerable who are often overlooked by institutions of power, made an impact on anyone who was privileged to share a few words with him. I will miss this kind and passionate man and thank God for his life.

After my book came out and I received the box of shiny paperback copies from the publisher, Keith was one of first people I called. I wanted to show him what he had helped me create. After all, Keith had not only led me to understand key concepts, I had quoted from Religious Abuse numerous times.

Soon after that, I was again sitting in Keith’s modest family room. I handed him a signed copy of Breaking Their Will, and he gave me a draft of a new book he was working on. It was quite a personal account, really, one that was dedicated to his children in which he shared his personal and spiritual beliefs and feelings.

I gained a great deal from my years knowing Keith. Not only did he teach me about religion, he showed me how standing by one’s convictions that come from a place of love can change lives. I am honored to be part of an organization that had the Rev. Keith Wright as an advisor. But even more than that, I am proud to have known him as a friend.




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Janet Heimlich is an award-winning journalist and the author of "Breaking Their Will: Shedding Light on Religious Child Maltreatment," the first book to fully examine the issue of child abuse and neglect enabled by religious belief. In 2012, Janet founded the Child-Friendly Faith Project whose mission is to share knowledge and build community around the issue of religious child maltreatment (RCM) and advocate for and empower those whose lives are impacted by RCM. She also sits on the board of directors of Foundation Beyond Belief and co-hosts the podcast, "Parenting Beyond Belief." Prior to becoming a child advocate, Janet was a freelance reporter for National Public Radio, work for which she won numerous journalism awards; she has also written nonfiction articles for such publications as Texas Monthly and the Texas Observer.


  1. Bill Walker
    January 17, 2015

    Keith was my college roommate (two years) and seminary roommate (one year). He was a remarkable human being, who never stopped learning and growing, even after he was officially “retired.” He will be greatly missed!

    • February 26, 2015

      Bill, thank you for sharing this lovely tribute. I want to apologize to you and others who have written comments. For some reason, our notification feature did not kick in and I realize only now that people had submitted comments. I attended Keith’s service last weekend and was inspired by the hundreds of people who attended to honor this great man.

  2. January 17, 2015

    I’m grateful that you shared this. Recently a friend was trying to pressure me into attending her church even though I told her the idea that only Christians are worthy of salvation was unacceptable to me on so many levels. I’m grateful for the quote below. It says clearly what I was trying to communicate. Christianity has not fully acknowledged its past. And it is not enough to attempt to pass the responsibility to other sects by being an independent congregation. The damage from negativity is not confined to one sect or denomination.
    While his bio states that he loved the church, he also acknowledged that it is one that can be “grievously abusive.” And he noted, for the church to benefit people, “it must admit that it has harmed, and continues to harm, many that it is supposed to serve.”

  3. Margaret McLaughlin
    January 16, 2015

    Hello–I very much enjoyed reading the above information about Keith Wright and plan to purchase his book. As a fellow recovering child of Christian Science parents, I saw one brother die; I am a guardian of my sister who has suffered her entire life for a mere lack of thyroid medication which was detected at birth but left untreated. Thank you for sharing this information.

    I am also writing to inquire as to how to receive a DVD of the last conference held in Austin in early December. I registered for that conference but was unable to attend. It is my understanding, however, that a DVD or DVDs covering the main speaker presentations would be available. Can you assist me with how to order copies?

    I am a retired licensed professional counselor and have kept my licensure active. In that regard, are there CEU credits offered for this conference? I am interested whether or not credit is offered, and I again, thank you so much for sharing the information regarding Keith Wright and offer my condolences to you for your loss.

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